There is nothing more frustrating than speaking, and not being heard.
I’ve found this to be the case with most of my life.
Constant misconception, misunderstanding.
I’ve spent years, removing the fluff and speaking as clearly and direct as possible.
I stopped hinting, stopped beating around the bush…
I stopped bullshitting, and wasting time.
Began explaining, and defining, and using examples, analogies.. Getting to the point as quickly as possible.
Anything to get the point across…
Crickets. Assumptions, accusations… a constant road block in communication. Like some invisible translator is transcribing my speech into some foreign alien language.
How does, “I’m tired.” Translate to “I’m miserable.”
How does, “I want to help you grow,” translate to, “I’m judging you and want you to fail?”
How does, “I got this and am excited about this new life I’m living,” turn into “I’m competition?”
How does, “Hey, how are you?” Translate to “I need something from you?”
It’s time to start writing it. Don’t say it. Write it.
This way, one can read it, using multiple parts of the brain, to hopefully understand it better.
And if they don’t, well.
I did my part….
I’ve been on this journey to see how much I can change my life in the shortest amount of time, with very little to no resources.
Very little, to no support.
As natural as possible, and as healthy as possible.
This silent era, is really showing me a lot.
I think it’s time to start the book.
-Lund3on
